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Are you fed up with all the nonsense advice you receive from popular female magazines available? Obviously you're. We both know that they'll rarely give you any valuable ideas that work in real life. As a guy with probably much more experience than the average person I believe I can tell you what really works, for a change, when it comes to winning on the guy's heart. And no, it isn't the general advice: give him space, cook him a pleasant meal and stop nagging all day. Sure, to some extent that works as well:), but cell phone the Core method to really "conquer" any guy you want.
The real way to get that guy loving you a lot more than you can imagine is a straightforward, 3 letter word. You got it right: Sex. The way to a man's heart is thru his penis. Whether you like it or otherwise - that's the cold, hard truth.
Did I tell you anything new? Most likely not. But let me elaborate.
A lot of you ladies are totally clueless when it comes to sex. You believe that you are "good in bed", or maybe your ex told you so, or whatever. But how can you know for sure? After being with more women than I'm able to remember, honestly, the majority of you're lost in space when it comes to pleasing a man to the fullest. Sure, you are able to maybe make him orgasm - but just while he came does not mean it's the best orgasm he's able to having.
Every guy includes a few different levels of orgasm strength. There is the regular orgasm, then your little bit better one - and then, there's earth-shattering, striking the table and screaming out in pleasure that appears like it lasts forever! And many of you girls have No clue how to get your guy to that particular level.
If you did - he would give you credit completely differently. You would be unique, the only real woman that's able to pleasing him to some mind-blowing level - and, as you probably know, most guys think with their genitals. It's very easy to fall deeply in love with a woman with these "magical" skills. Plus they really are magical.
So, what I'm saying is that - the ONLY sure method of getting a man not just crazy about you, but basically sexually hooked on You, is as simple as giving him that third degree of earth-shattering orgasms. When you can accomplish that, you'll have any guy want eating out of your hands and doing everything in his power to help you stay.
"Okay, so how do I provide him that "third level" of orgasm?" I'm able to already hear a number of you asking.
I will not give you 173 "new, funky and fresh tips" for pleasing him better during sex, such as the magazines do. Instead, I'll give you only 3 actual life tips that actually get results. And if this doesn't work - there is little.
1. Improve your attitude in bed. This is the first step. When you are in bed together with your guy (or outside), you have to have a "pleasing attitude." This means that you need to focus all your attention to satisfying him and making them seem like a King! During sex, treat your guy as though your one and only goal (in everyday life!) is to please him to the fullest. Have a more giving personality, and provide without expecting anything in return.
Basically, if you're prepared to do anything for your guy in bed - because giving him pleasure ultimately provides you with pleasure - he'll adore you for this. A lot of women just jump on the bed and expect the guy to do everything. Don't be among those girls (or, cows, how women like that are commonly called by guys).
In bed - be flexible, move around, do anything you can to make him feel amazing. Produce a good atmosphere, talk dirty to him, role play - surprise him with something totally new making it fun, not a chore. It is essential to shift your thinking from "I'm giving him this and that he should be happy he got anything." into "I can't wait to create him scream from pleasure!"
Remember girls, a high level pleaser, men will label you as a "Keeper!" - having a capital "K":)
2. Since you have improved your attitude a bit, the following actual life tip is: blow jobs. Yes, you see clearly right. Because you made a decision to be much more of a pleaser during sex, this implies you need to make any fantasy your guy has a reality. And one of these fantasies are perfect blow jobs. Every guy wants them more than anything. And it's an art that many women lack, so - if you can participate the 10-20% of women that understand how to give amazing blow jobs, it will likely be quicker to conquer any guy. Focus on developing this skill by practicing on your guy whenever possible. Surprise him with oral sex whenever you can and please him to the better of your ability.
The important thing here is that you observe his reactions to your skills to be able to read him properly and understand how to adjust your method to the guy you're with. Don't be afraid to be as "dirty" as possible. Men would like you to become an angel for their Mom and a wh#re during sex. So let go and become free - sexual liberation rules! In terms of blow jobs I'll let you know the fundamentals: talk dirty, love doing it more than life itself and swallow. Spitters are quitters!
At this point your guy has already been 100 times more satisfied and pleased to be with you. Following these tips can get him to that particular "third level" of orgasm I was talking about (where his eyes come out and the brain freezes).
3. Finally is determining something extremely important - his brain. Lots of you ladies believe that we're robots which anything can turn us on. Well, it cannot. It's not just regarding your skills or perhaps your technique - what counts is the ability to master your guys emotions. Guys are visual - so they want to see stuff, you in high heel shoes, with a nice tan, a tight body, sexy thongs, a grin and a nice atmosphere.
Focus on capturing all of his senses, because his orgasm occur in his brain. A minimum of - this is where the "third level" orgasms do. To get at that level, you need to master his mind, not only his penis. Mastering the physical aspects of sex aren't that hard, but mastering his emotions, how he feels during intercourse etc. are a different thing. You need to know things to say, and the way to say it. The right words can be magical.
So long as you have the general guideline of treating him just like a King, you can't go wrong. Focus on that attitude and you'll see near-instant results of love, love and more love. Did I mention love?:)
He's your King and you should be his Queen that adores pleasing her "Master" and "Royal Highness." Deny him nothing, give him everything. And you'll get back all you invest, and far, much more. I guarantee you that.